I frequently get “Timeout waiting for debugger to respond” messages. I have two projects in my solution. First is a windows console web server. That works fine. The other project is a cocoa OSX application. After a successful build, the error message pops up. Then I just shut everything down and restart Visual Studio/Oxygene and it usually works. If I stop the programs, do some editing, rebuild and run again I will get the error again. Repeat the process-shut it all down, restart.
I’m running the latest Oxygene and OSX 10.9.3. I don’t know where to begin to make it work regularly.